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	<title>Comments on: More Thoughts on Slow Dieting</title>
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	<description>encouragement for battle-weary weight watchers</description>
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		<title>By: Millie</title>
		<link>http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/02/15/slow-dieting/comment-page-1/#comment-699</link>
		<dc:creator>Millie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 10:10:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve blogged further on this: http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/05/25/wow-i-feel-used/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve blogged further on this: <a href="http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/05/25/wow-i-feel-used/" rel="nofollow">http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/05/25/wow-i-feel-used/</a></p>
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		<title>By: jenniferjelly</title>
		<link>http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/02/15/slow-dieting/comment-page-1/#comment-698</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 19:54:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you - I really appreciate your comments.

If you go to the website of her practice -theharleynutritionclinic-  there is more press on there. Also - something you might be interested in - Hala is actually launching a website in a few weeks called &quot;Nutrition Rocks&quot; http://www.nutrition-rocks.co.uk/ which will be  trying to ignite people&#039;s passion for health, fitness and good food - trying to get people to improve their attitude towards food and eating and also improve body image and self-esteem. So there will be lots of content on there if you are interested in reading more about it all. Have a great day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you &#8211; I really appreciate your comments.</p>
<p>If you go to the website of her practice -theharleynutritionclinic-  there is more press on there. Also &#8211; something you might be interested in &#8211; Hala is actually launching a website in a few weeks called &#8220;Nutrition Rocks&#8221; <a href="http://www.nutrition-rocks.co.uk/" rel="nofollow">http://www.nutrition-rocks.co.uk/</a> which will be  trying to ignite people&#8217;s passion for health, fitness and good food &#8211; trying to get people to improve their attitude towards food and eating and also improve body image and self-esteem. So there will be lots of content on there if you are interested in reading more about it all. Have a great day.</p>
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		<title>By: Millie</title>
		<link>http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/02/15/slow-dieting/comment-page-1/#comment-695</link>
		<dc:creator>Millie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 17:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your thoughts Jennifer.  I really do agree with all those principles and it&#039;s likely that Hala El-Shafie and I probably agree on almost everything to do with food.  I simply feel it&#039;s not helpful to say &quot;don&#039;t diet&quot; because it&#039;s become another bandwagon that causes divisions between people who probably should be working together.

Maybe it&#039;s the &quot;don&#039;t&quot; word that got me. 

And I&#039;m not a great fan of WW.  I&#039;m very very cynical about the corporate stuff and wouldn&#039;t touch their food for anything.  But it&#039;s not a bad place to start if you can&#039;t afford specialist help and want to begin the journey to a saner relationship with food and body.  I&#039;d certainly recommend it over any other meeting based programme.

Anyway- I&#039;m very happy for you to set the record straight and I hope that someone gets the help they need because you bothered.  I&#039;d be interested to know more about what Hala El-Shafie offers. Has she written anything that&#039;s available to those of us who live a long long way from Harley Street?  Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your thoughts Jennifer.  I really do agree with all those principles and it&#8217;s likely that Hala El-Shafie and I probably agree on almost everything to do with food.  I simply feel it&#8217;s not helpful to say &#8220;don&#8217;t diet&#8221; because it&#8217;s become another bandwagon that causes divisions between people who probably should be working together.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s the &#8220;don&#8217;t&#8221; word that got me. </p>
<p>And I&#8217;m not a great fan of WW.  I&#8217;m very very cynical about the corporate stuff and wouldn&#8217;t touch their food for anything.  But it&#8217;s not a bad place to start if you can&#8217;t afford specialist help and want to begin the journey to a saner relationship with food and body.  I&#8217;d certainly recommend it over any other meeting based programme.</p>
<p>Anyway- I&#8217;m very happy for you to set the record straight and I hope that someone gets the help they need because you bothered.  I&#8217;d be interested to know more about what Hala El-Shafie offers. Has she written anything that&#8217;s available to those of us who live a long long way from Harley Street?  Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: jenniferjelly</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 16:40:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As much as I agree with the fact that losing weight is an incredibly long and hard process for many of us, I think you are taking what Hala El-Shafie has said out of context. Portion size is one of the biggest problems in people who are overweight - when I was trying to lose weight I cut down my portion sizes and realised that as much as I wanted a big plate of food when I was hungry, the smaller portion was more than sufficient. That in itself is a psychological issue - thinking you need/want more than you do. That was one of the biggest realisations I had when losing weight. Also - what Ms El-Shafie has stated is not characteristic of a &#039;diet&#039; - because many diets require you to cut out food groups, which is the problem with diets as your cravings make you break them. 

You have taken a very small passage of text out of an article - this hardly illustrates the extent of Hala El-Shafie&#039;s clinical technique or viewpoints. I used to be one of Hala&#039;s clients and what makes her so amazing as a nutritionist and dietician is the fact that she looks at not only your eating behviour, but also your sleep and mood behaviour - and tries to target the psychological issues underlying your eating. It is so much more than just saying &quot;eat less&quot; but it&#039;s very hard to demonstrate that in a small article. 

You give credit to diets such as Weight Watchers - but that has exactly the same ethos as what Hala El-Shafie said: eat a range of food and have treats, but have smaller portions - hence why you have to weigh out specific amounts of food!


I really appreciate how hard losing weight is and I too get very irritated by those who just say &quot;don&#039;t eat&quot; and don&#039;t take into consideration your lifestyle or feelings - but I really don&#039;t think this is what was done in this article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As much as I agree with the fact that losing weight is an incredibly long and hard process for many of us, I think you are taking what Hala El-Shafie has said out of context. Portion size is one of the biggest problems in people who are overweight &#8211; when I was trying to lose weight I cut down my portion sizes and realised that as much as I wanted a big plate of food when I was hungry, the smaller portion was more than sufficient. That in itself is a psychological issue &#8211; thinking you need/want more than you do. That was one of the biggest realisations I had when losing weight. Also &#8211; what Ms El-Shafie has stated is not characteristic of a &#8216;diet&#8217; &#8211; because many diets require you to cut out food groups, which is the problem with diets as your cravings make you break them. </p>
<p>You have taken a very small passage of text out of an article &#8211; this hardly illustrates the extent of Hala El-Shafie&#8217;s clinical technique or viewpoints. I used to be one of Hala&#8217;s clients and what makes her so amazing as a nutritionist and dietician is the fact that she looks at not only your eating behviour, but also your sleep and mood behaviour &#8211; and tries to target the psychological issues underlying your eating. It is so much more than just saying &#8220;eat less&#8221; but it&#8217;s very hard to demonstrate that in a small article. </p>
<p>You give credit to diets such as Weight Watchers &#8211; but that has exactly the same ethos as what Hala El-Shafie said: eat a range of food and have treats, but have smaller portions &#8211; hence why you have to weigh out specific amounts of food!</p>
<p>I really appreciate how hard losing weight is and I too get very irritated by those who just say &#8220;don&#8217;t eat&#8221; and don&#8217;t take into consideration your lifestyle or feelings &#8211; but I really don&#8217;t think this is what was done in this article.</p>
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		<title>By: Millie</title>
		<link>http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/02/15/slow-dieting/comment-page-1/#comment-306</link>
		<dc:creator>Millie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 22:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn&#039;t know about asking permission; I&#039;m a rookie too.  Link away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t know about asking permission; I&#8217;m a rookie too.  Link away.</p>
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		<title>By: mollie</title>
		<link>http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/02/15/slow-dieting/comment-page-1/#comment-305</link>
		<dc:creator>mollie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 22:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks!  I just read on another blog that one is supposed to ask before adding links -- I didn&#039;t know that. I&#039;d put a link to your blog on mine (I hope that&#039;s ok, but if not, let me know and I&#039;ll take it down). I thought of using the blog as a kind of home page/control panel with links to sites I&#039;d like to read. Then I linked to 3fc and wordpress shut me down for making a commercial post. Yikes! (They relented, but I&#039;m now afraid to link to anything.)

I think we are kindred spirits. I do believe that there are some things that one can figure out, lessons to be learned, mistakes not to be repeated. And I do this in the hope that, once that work is done (and, in my case, a long bout of retraining to get me back to where you are now), then it will be possible to live a normal life. Won&#039;t it? Otherwise, it will be losing, gaining, losing, gaining, and making those cute little charts AND feeling horribly guilty because one is supposed to lose 2 pounds a week. Or so they say.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks!  I just read on another blog that one is supposed to ask before adding links &#8212; I didn&#8217;t know that. I&#8217;d put a link to your blog on mine (I hope that&#8217;s ok, but if not, let me know and I&#8217;ll take it down). I thought of using the blog as a kind of home page/control panel with links to sites I&#8217;d like to read. Then I linked to 3fc and wordpress shut me down for making a commercial post. Yikes! (They relented, but I&#8217;m now afraid to link to anything.)</p>
<p>I think we are kindred spirits. I do believe that there are some things that one can figure out, lessons to be learned, mistakes not to be repeated. And I do this in the hope that, once that work is done (and, in my case, a long bout of retraining to get me back to where you are now), then it will be possible to live a normal life. Won&#8217;t it? Otherwise, it will be losing, gaining, losing, gaining, and making those cute little charts AND feeling horribly guilty because one is supposed to lose 2 pounds a week. Or so they say.</p>
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		<title>By: Millie</title>
		<link>http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/02/15/slow-dieting/comment-page-1/#comment-303</link>
		<dc:creator>Millie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d say we&#039;ve found another kindred spirit......Please keep the comments coming. 
And well done on the loss and especially on keeping it off.  I&#039;ll be following your progress over at your blog. (note to self: add link)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d say we&#8217;ve found another kindred spirit&#8230;&#8230;Please keep the comments coming.<br />
And well done on the loss and especially on keeping it off.  I&#8217;ll be following your progress over at your blog. (note to self: add link)</p>
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		<title>By: mollie</title>
		<link>http://www.talkingitoff.com/2010/02/15/slow-dieting/comment-page-1/#comment-301</link>
		<dc:creator>mollie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 19:33:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a wonderful post. One sentence really struck home to me: &quot;if you’re used to eating whatever, whenever and however much you want, Ms El-Shafie’s approach to not dieting IS dieting.&quot;

I can&#039;t count the number of times I&#039;d find a diet where &quot;Step One&quot; was to take someone&#039;s &quot;regular&quot; menu that added up to, say, 2500 calories and, with just a few simple changes (switching skim for full fat milk, cutting out the banana split and substituting a 1/4 cup cottage cheese, etc.) you&#039;d be down to 1200 calories and halfway to nirvana. But I didn&#039;t have a typical menu. I didn&#039;t eat three meals a day. That approach would have worked for me in high school, but not now.

I&#039;ve been doing this very slowly. I lost 36 pounds over a 15-month period, ending last year about a year ago. I&#039;ve lost only 2 pounds since. BUT I had a very stressful, challenging year and I did not regain, nor did I &quot;slip back&quot; into the old bad habits I&#039;d been able to break. I count that as a victory, and -- finally -- have realized that that&#039;s the map to winning the war. It&#039;s guerrilla warfare, picking off the snipers and clearing out each little band of saboteurs until there are none left, and then I&#039;ll be ready to sit down and have a cup of coffee (no cream, no sugar) with Ms El-Shafie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a wonderful post. One sentence really struck home to me: &#8220;if you’re used to eating whatever, whenever and however much you want, Ms El-Shafie’s approach to not dieting IS dieting.&#8221;</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t count the number of times I&#8217;d find a diet where &#8220;Step One&#8221; was to take someone&#8217;s &#8220;regular&#8221; menu that added up to, say, 2500 calories and, with just a few simple changes (switching skim for full fat milk, cutting out the banana split and substituting a 1/4 cup cottage cheese, etc.) you&#8217;d be down to 1200 calories and halfway to nirvana. But I didn&#8217;t have a typical menu. I didn&#8217;t eat three meals a day. That approach would have worked for me in high school, but not now.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been doing this very slowly. I lost 36 pounds over a 15-month period, ending last year about a year ago. I&#8217;ve lost only 2 pounds since. BUT I had a very stressful, challenging year and I did not regain, nor did I &#8220;slip back&#8221; into the old bad habits I&#8217;d been able to break. I count that as a victory, and &#8212; finally &#8212; have realized that that&#8217;s the map to winning the war. It&#8217;s guerrilla warfare, picking off the snipers and clearing out each little band of saboteurs until there are none left, and then I&#8217;ll be ready to sit down and have a cup of coffee (no cream, no sugar) with Ms El-Shafie.</p>
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