May 072010
 
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I’m a change addict. I love a new day, a fresh start, a clean slate and every other cliché you can throw at me.

But change isn’t always pain free.

Take the recent events over at BCB. During a much needed, but perhaps not completely well thought out, spring cleaning of the boards, my whole little part of the community was wiped out.  Literally all our posts from forever were accidentally lost.  When some of my friends commented (and I never saw what they said), they were permanently banned from the boards.

What to do?  I have years and years of history there and can honestly say that the BCB mind set was the first step towards learning to take and keep weight off.

But I have exactly the same number of years history with those particular individuals, some of whom post here too.  For a couple of days I lurked at the new board and tried to find a place but just couldn’t summon up the enthusiasm to make new “friends” when the people I had connected with were elsewhere.  So I decided to join the crew at our invite-only facebook group.

Exclusive?  Yep – but lots of people are over there and we’re still supporting  each other and working through the issues that trip us up every day.

I still think BCB should be the first port of call for anyone who feels stuck on the weight loss roller coaster – for anyone who feels weak and powerless in the face of chocolate – for anyone who needs a good kick in the pants.  For that reason, I’ll leave the link here, but I won’t be back because it’s time to move on.

  2 Responses to “Moving On from BCB”

  1. Millie, I can tell you in all honesty that there was nothing said that warranted a lifetime ban from BCB for any of us. I can also tell you that some of what was said by Ms. BCB Owner was a pack of lies, as far as her intentions, her actions, and their result. She had apparently talked about deleting the Fabbies a while ago. In a way, I miss it. But I have my Fab buddies, and that’s what counts!

  2. I’ve had that nagging thought, Gracie. I think the post deletions was an accident but I’m sure that people aren’t sad that The Fabs are gone. Oh well. I’m truly liking the vibe of the new group. I just miss Em. x

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