Can’t linger…
It’s our anniversary and we’re going out for a wonderful calorie-laden meal tonight.
But I still have that 139 in my head.
But I DO NOT want that number to make me feel cranky.
The Dieter’s Dilemma.
So I’m not going to hang around here – but put on my running shoes and trot out the door for an hour.
And then enjoy every single bite of whatever I fancy. Possibly butternut squash and goats cheese lasagna followed by crème brûlée. And a large glass of wine.
Oh! But first I need be an old woman for a moment and list a few things that I’ve learned about staying married and in love. (And learned the hard way over these 26 years, I assure you.)
- Saying please and thank you to each other for little things like making a cup of coffee.
- Saying I Love You without any reason whatsoever.
- Doing little things without thinking “but it’s not my turn….”
- Knowing when to give some space.
- Being physical in little ways and big. Sometimes sex IS the answer.
- Knowing that hugs are often better than words when things aren’t great.
- Allowing each other to blossom in life – and the blossoming one not leaving the other behind.
- Living as though you’re joined together on a super long lead that you almost never notice.
- Forgiving before it becomes an effort.
- Praying together – it that’s your kind of thing.
On with the day.
best advice EVER! Happy anniversary xoxox